A Reason, A Season or a Lifetime.....
By Anonymous

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.

When you figure out which it is for each person you know, you'll have a better understanding of why those people do what they do, and how none of it should be taken personally.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you
have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize
is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. Appreciate the support
that you got from them, then move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real!
But, only for a season.
Too much of this kind of relationship at one time can be overwhelming.
Once you have done so much, there is little left to connect with,
so you part ways with a promise to meet again.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
those things you must build upon
in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person/people any way,
and put what you have learned to use
in all other relationships and areas of your life.
This relationship may include parts from all of the above.
So, how do you know when you have a lifetime relationship?

You must find that answer yourself.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.


You have got to know by now that I did not make this page with the intent to curse anyone in case they didn't send it on... So don't feel obligated to sent it to anyone. If you do wish to send it out to whomever, I don't think you should feel guilty about it. I mean, how friendly is that?? You get this email that you have to send to 10 people or else you are cursed with whatever the email promises to curse you with, so you pass it on to your friends and family so that they have to panick and send it out too??? Why would you pass on something that you did not even want youself??? Pretty RUDE, I believe. So, don't send me that stuff, and I won't send you that crap either, I say. I like to recieve kewl pages tho, ones that don't promise to curse you with bad luck, or ruin your chance of love...



Just smile and be happy!!!! (That is what he is saying...)

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